Many years ago, I was watching an interview video of futures tycoon Fu Haitang.
In this interview, Fu Haitang said that his family must establish family rules: future generations are absolutely not allowed to participate in futures.
Fu Haitang was quite successful in futures trading. He went from being a poor farmer to being worth over a billion yuan, which is 10,000 times better than me and other dicks.
I am so successful in doing business by myself, if my children want to work in this industry, wouldn't they be able to get the moon sooner rather than later? You can teach him yourself without reservation, but why not allow future generations to make deals?
After I have been a professional speculator for ten years, I can understand him very well, and I also strongly agree with his views. I will never allow my son to invest in the future, even if it is to buy stocks.
Why?
If someone asks me how to do futures successfully?
I used to talk a lot, but now I am basically silent.
There are two reasons for the silence:
One is that I have suffered so much and suffered so much, and finally have some reliable experience, why should I tell you directly?
The second thing is worse, I found out that even if I tell you, it is useless at all, because you people will never listen to me.
There have been several people who came to my company to study, and they were responsible for placing orders for me, and I told them everything about my views and methods on trading, and I taught them everything.
But the actual result is that they didn't even learn the superficial thing. They learned nothing from me, and they still did it according to their own ideas.
So even if I tell you how I do it, it's useless for you to trade.
This is human nature, people are stubborn, and they will only trade according to their own wishes. Even if this person is my son, I believe that if he makes a deal, he will not listen to me.
There are various advantages to trading, especially when you can make stable profits, such as:
You can never look anyone in the face, not even a client.
As far as this is concerned, it is impossible in any other industry in the world. At least you have to look at the face of the boss, and the customer is even an uncle, so how dare you offend him so easily.
But by investing, you can make money. Sorry, you don’t need to be a client.
When Lin Yuan held an investor meeting last year, some investors directly asked Lin Yuan to apologize because of the loss in the stock. You can watch that video. Lin Yuan said directly: "If you are like-minded, buy my products. If you don't buy them, I will never force you. If you lose money, you deserve it. It is never possible for me to apologize. I am so rich. People with money, how can they apologize to the poor? There are few people in the world who are better than me.”
How can Lin Yuan be so emboldened when he directly makes the client speechless?
The confidence is that he made a lot of money in the past and was extremely successful in investing, so what's wrong with retreating a bit now? You look down on me, redeem it, I don't have time to serve you.
Is this confidence cool?
But you have to know that there is a huge price behind such coolness. This price is so high that few people can bear it, such as: Can you bear loneliness, even extreme loneliness?
The more high-level your investment is, the more you feel that the high place is extremely cold, and you can't communicate with anyone. To be precise, there are no people at the same level as you, and you are alone.
This is even more obvious when we do foreign exchange.
Take me for example:
Yesterday I was watching the market by myself in the company. In the room of 160 square meters, I could only hear the sound of my own walking and typing on the keyboard. Watching the ups and downs of the market.
You can’t go home until 11 or 12 o’clock in the evening. What’s worse is that your family members can’t understand you and think that you must be lazy in the company when you come home so late every day, and you don’t want to go home to do housework or take care of your children.
At this time, you have lost millions in trading by yourself, but you don't know how to speak at all.
All the loneliness, loneliness, and pain can only be borne by you alone. It can be said that almost few people can bear this kind of pressure.
If you think you can resist, you can try it for more than 5 years?
Dealers don't have friends, I haven't had one in years, and certainly don't seem to need one.
This loneliness is really painful...
There is also a premise here, that is, you can make money by doing transactions. For most people, it is good to be able to make money, at least you get paid for your efforts. In fact, the most likely situation is:
You are under tremendous pressure, pain and loneliness, but the transaction is a mess, and the pants are gone.
What do you propose?
I was so lucky that I didn't even have pants, and I was disgusted, looked down upon, or despised to be precise by the people around me.
So, it’s better not to enter this industry. If you are a novice and read my article, if you quit, then I think you have done a great thing.
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