Trading Mentality: "Facefully Accept the Arrangement of Fate"

Before writing the article, I chatted with a trading friend for about forty-five minutes...

I have known this friend for several years, and he said that my mentality of doing transactions seems to have improved a lot since this year.

I thought about it myself and said: yes.

Because it seems that since this year, I no longer worry about gains and losses in trading. Whether it is profit or loss, it seems that the transaction is really not so painful.

What is the reason?

I know that it is very difficult to do this, because it has nothing to do with trading skills and analytical skills, it is a purely psychological maturity process.

What exactly does it mean to be mature in trading psychology?

I think it is because I can calmly accept the profit and loss of each transaction. The reason why I can be calm, especially for those orders that are obviously profitable, but in the end they are taken as a loss and the stop loss order is canceled, you can be calm. This is very difficult, yes People will regret it, because I finally want to understand one thing:

The market itself is random, fluctuates disorderly, and is full of chance. You can spend your whole life and have no way to accurately predict the market. You have no other choice but to accept it.

As I write this, I remembered that I saw a video of Luo Xiang on the Internet:

He basically said: Do you believe that man can conquer nature? It’s best not to do this, because once you succeed, you will think that all the results are the result of your own hard work and wise choices, while ignoring the influence of the social environment, opportunities and even national luck. You will overestimate yourself, and you may make fatal mistakes.

There are many similar vivid cases, such as Hu Xueyan, who is farther away, and Xu Jiayin, who is closer.

If I do have a lot of success trading one day, it's really just a gift of fate.

I have experienced many similar cases in the transaction:

I once thought that an excellent trading opportunity was triggered, and I also entered the market with a heavy position according to the plan. After entering the market, the market also went very well according to my expectations, but suddenly, a bad news came, and my stop loss order It was knocked out, and I almost vomited blood. This is the bang that fate gave me.

Of course, I have also encountered trading opportunities that I am not optimistic about, such as gold. I started to make a lot of money when I entered the market. I held positions for a few hours and made more than 10,000 US dollars in one hand. I also encountered profits that far exceeded what the market should have. level, this is also a gift of fate.

Okay, let's go a little further.

I am still waiting for the perfect opportunity that I think subjectively, and I don’t know whether this opportunity is a gift from fate or a clapper under fate?

I went to have my teeth planted yesterday, and it was already severely smashed by someone...God also wants to have an energy conservation!