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For the group of foreign exchange and stock traders, "loneliness" seems to be a word with a high frequency. After forming their own trading system, has trading really become a topic that cannot be discussed with others? Traders, the biggest question is, do you really have no friends?
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Author: Snail - Walking
I saw an article a few days ago, a very successful investment person, purely stock income, earned millions this year. But in the eyes of family members, he is still an idler who does not go to work every day, and in the eyes of neighbors, relatives and friends, he is still a jobless vagrant. In the eyes of the society, he is just an ordinary person.
I left him a message twice, one was to register a company, and I could be known as the boss of a certain company to the outside world. Later, I thought it was a bit of a joke, and the second time I left a message saying that you are still not rich enough, or you are not rich enough, When you drive a multi-million dollar luxury car and live in a villa with a few hundred square meters, you will definitely not be in the current situation.
I have seen many full-time investors say that they are out of tune with many people around them, that they are lonely, and that it is difficult for them to be recognized by the mainstream society. Many people even don't want to tell others that they are full-time stock speculators. They don't know how to fill in the father's job on their child's registration form. They can't really write the shareholders of multiple listed companies.
To be honest, I am also facing this problem now.
Yesterday, I was talking about the stock market with a friend. My friend asked me about my income this year. After knowing the result, he said that it was better than going to work, but he also said that you still need to find something to do. You see, in the eyes of most people, stock investment is not serious business. Although this may earn more.
I can now say that I am retired. Although it is less than 40, the salary income after retirement is no problem to support the family. Retiring at this age is actually a bit embarrassing to say. Hmm, I'm a little ecstatic.
The original idea was to open a store, but after you understand the stock market, you may lose the confidence to start your own business. Today, there are more than 4,000 listed companies. These 4,000 companies are basically the best companies in all walks of life in China. I think it's hard for most people to do better than their boss. You have no funds, no qualifications, no experience, no connections, and no desire to endure hardship. Why do you think that starting a business by yourself will be better than them.
Therefore, I choose to invest in them, even if I only buy one lot, then I am also a shareholder of this company, and I will enjoy the benefits of this company. Hillhouse Capital invested 4 billion and I bought it. In fact, we are doing the same thing.
Many people say that people who invested in real estate in the past made a lot of money. But if you buy the stock of a real estate company and hold it for the same time as your house, you will find that the market value of the real estate company has risen much faster than the house price (the leverage effect of buying a house has been counted here ). This is where stock investing surpasses most people's perception.
Full-time investors are indeed lonely, because it is difficult for you to meet people who share a common language in your life. Almost everyone around me thinks that stocks are money-losing, and stocks are gambling.
You can only find people like yourself on the Internet. Moreover, such people are too good for you to climb, and you can't look down on those who are not good enough. Those who can communicate may not be willing to talk to you. People who want to talk to you, you dare not say too much, because there is a picture and a sentence widely circulated among stock speculators, the consequences of recommending stocks to friends, whether they make money or not, the final result is to lose this friend. This has the same effect as lending money to a friend.
Therefore, now when my friends ask me about stocks, except for a few people who I know have the ability to make independent judgments, I almost always show them my positions. The size of the positions represents my attitude towards this stock. The specific transaction is up to you.
Moreover, I have really encountered many times that my friend and I bought a certain stock at the same time, and the result was that I made a profit and he lost. After I sold the stocks of Pien Tze Huang, Wuliangye, Longji, etc., they all doubled. Really, you have to believe that it is really difficult for you to earn money beyond what you know. My Pien Tze Huang can’t get 290. It’s true that my ability is not up to this point.
Ability is hard to say. Is there an inevitable connection between ability and personal success? uncertain. Personal success in a certain sense is related to ability, environment, choice, and even luck.
Ability is something that can only be distinguished under the same conditions, such as various professional competitions and so on.
Among all the people I have come into contact with, strictly speaking, I admire one and a half people, because I think they have done things that I think are beyond their abilities, and they have done things that I think I would not do even in their position. They are better. And most people I think if I do it, I will do it better than them. Well, I'm bragging again.
In terms of investment, I found that there are many people I admire, because there are too many others who have done things that I can't.
For example, some people can focus on one industry, and their research is very in-depth. Some people have made hundreds of times by holding a stock for more than ten years.
All your actions are the reflection of your thoughts. Your cognition determines what you can do. Without strong confidence, how dare you take a full position in a stock; without a deep understanding, how dare you make a hundredfold profit in ten years; without hard work, how can you study such an industry so deeply.
My children often say that it's not that they don't know how to do it, they just forget it. I told her, you just can't. You have to admit that you don't know how to learn. Well, I admit, I don't know much.