About 30 years old, how to choose?

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I have been thinking about this issue for a long time. I have worked in fast-moving consumer goods for a total of 10 years, and I am very familiar with this industry. I am not smart enough, and I hate people who are sophisticated and have low EQ and IQ.

For a person in his 30s, he has been planning his own future. It can be said that most of my friends who worked in fast-moving consumer goods were older than me. people. Some time ago, a headhunter left the office directly, and the salary was okay. Later, I had a lot of phone calls with my friends, because in the workplace, if you are not good enough after the age of 35, you will face cruel things, and even your energy will not keep up. For many friends, there is a lot of sense of crisis, because companies are cruel, especially Internet companies, and friends who called Ali Retail also advised me that since I jumped out, forget it, and I finally escaped. It is best to cherish the choice in front of you in the circle that suits you. The most important thing is to focus on what you like. Even Lei Jun said: "Don't be afraid of choices. If you make a wrong choice, you can't start all over again. You will definitely make mistakes in your life. The key is to improve the success of the right choice." These words are actually very interesting and philosophical. Indeed.


Choosing a transaction should give yourself a lot of insights from 2015 to 2016, because of the explosive growth of real estate in that year, because I used to blindly learn how to grow performance and how to manage customers to improve, without thinking about it How to invest to increase personal wealth. Slowly thinking about investing, but I was still working at the time and didn’t know anything about the stock market. According to the radio, the stock market is in a downturn and it’s worth buying. I called my stock trading friends and asked for advice. I thought it was okay to start, told me how to open an account, recommended my stocks, and clearly remembered that it took 30,000 and half a year to make a profit of 33% (Changjiang Securities, Jiangyin Bank, and Guoyuan Securities I bought at the time), and then quit the stock market to continue working. I continued to enter the market until 2019. Later, because of the epidemic, I directly lost money, especially Ping An Bank, which lost 25% of its heavy positions (now it must be profitable). Money and leverage, I have no choice but to resist, but I also believe that this company is good, I have learned to be more cautious after losses, learned to find stocks, and I bought Follett and got a good profit, but I bought less, but For myself, I have learned to look at stocks, which is a kind of progress. For the long-term holding of companies that are more valuable now, as a friend of time, it is actually a good and wonderful thing to grow with the company you like.

I also did options in 2016, and Xiaobai, who didn't understand anything personally, left the market at a loss. In 2021, because a friend opened a studio and received foreign exchange again, to be honest, it is really easy for Xiaobai who doesn’t understand anything to lose money, and many people will mislead you, so you must always have your own opinions and your own According to the logic of this world, you don't even believe in yourself. It is extremely unfair to you to hold your destiny in the hands of others. For the foreign exchange market this year, I have also gained a certain amount. It can be said that I have returned all the profits I lost before, and I have learned something. I have a better understanding of the market regardless of the technical aspect or the fundamental aspect. At present, many people are envious of my profits. These things come from the wrong "rewards" before. After all, I have been enjoying this process of losing money and carrying orders. This process has made me feel a lot of things. .

Talking about the topic of giving up work to do trading, the best way for individuals is to work while learning to invest, because at least there is enough money to live, and the principal of investment is enough to support. In the past, a friend said that there are two ways to increase wealth: 1. Start a business by yourself (I tried this before, but I gave up because my health was not good enough and I was not firm enough) 2. Invest and let Capable people help you make money (stocks can be bought in better companies or funds. Forex market operations or asset management by yourself), but I chose the latter. Now the whole line has chosen to quit the industry that he has been in for 10 years, and start to face the new industry again. It is a turning point. For a new turning point, a person will face many problems, because the main source is trading to get more Of course, I also write articles to obtain manuscript fees. Although it is not much, I am very grateful to some platforms for their recognition and encouragement. If you blindly work part-time, I suggest that you can learn more about investment, so that you can at least walk with more "legs" for yourself, so that you won't end up feeling uncomfortable, especially when you are about to turn 35, which is very embarrassing. Memory and learning ability will also decline, and companies will dislike you without too much contribution. This is a very cruel reality.

If you choose this path, personal advice: 1. Learn to stick to something, preferably what you like. It doesn’t need to be difficult, but continuous persistence will bring you a lot of feelings and truths . 2. Keep learning more, the times are constantly improving, only by constantly learning and exploring, curiosity will also bring you a lot of surprises 3. Keep a normal mind, try to concentrate on what you are familiar with, and maintain rational curiosity , Humble mentality. Investment should communicate more with peers, as Qiu Guolu said: joint research and independent investment are advocated. Mr. David Swenson pointed out that excellent investors have 6 characteristics: curiosity, self-confidence, humility, dedication, judgment, and enthusiasm (these words are summed up after reading books, and personal understanding is worth learning and practicing)



Come on, traders! We will always be the best, because what we are doing now is what we like, and it is also a very interesting thing.


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