i have a domineering name answered the question Traders, what moments do you feel "really broke"?

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i have a domineering name

When doing transactions in the early days, the frequency of crashes was very frequent. Big crash one week, little crash every week.

Constantly throwing things, only to regret afterwards about my actions and stupid trade orders. After that, I developed a habit of depositing a small amount each time, and the proportion of funds used in each transaction is 20%-30%.

There will be times of liquidation, and the first few times of liquidation are very tempered. Throwing things and yelling are common. Gradually, it became commonplace, that is, a cup of milk tea and a hot pot meal. Playing on weekends, mountains and rivers, cats and dogs, ease the mood.

It's the best option to let it go completely.

Trading is a job that requires a high degree of concentration. On the surface, repeated anxiety about the market is a state of mind, but in fact it is an immature strategy.

In the market, someone makes money. Naturally someone loses money.

Although the financial market is hugely profitable, it is ability, not luck, to be able to make lasting profits. After gradually waking up and letting go, I will not have hope for any transaction order, nor will I be disappointed with any transaction order. This sentiment has continued until now.

Now it is almost indifferent to all open position transactions.

Whether it is risk control, mentality, stop profit and stop loss, or strategic model, all of them are elements of a successful transaction. There is no lasting good and no permanent bad, ignorance and exhaustion are my constant state of mind right now.

The ancients said: No is extremely peaceful. The two sides of things are vividly displayed in the transaction. When the bad side happens, just move your fingers and it may turn into a good development direction.

Trading makes people collapse, because I can't predict the worst outcome of the transaction. Calmness is useful, based on traders with sufficient preparation and experience; mentality can be controlled, it is necessary to predict the trading results in advance.

The collapse of trading is not the trading itself, but the magnified expression of one's own way of dealing with the world.

If you want to be successful in the trading market once and for all, it is necessary to work hard for 5 years in the early stage. I believe that some people will shorten it to 3 years, but for most people, 5 years is the shortest time.

Everyone breaks down, and life is easy to break down. Trading is just a part of life.

It's good if you can see through it, but it's still the same if you can't see it through.

Last updated: 08/25/2023 05:14

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最爱她的那个他

How should I put it, what I want to say is that a loss of goods is not worthy of love.

And I'm the loser.

Although my girlfriend knows that I have been doing transactions, and I basically report good news but not bad news, she actually knows that I am basically losing money, and I have lost a lot. Although she also told me to give up several times, maybe my character is really not suitable for trading, but I never admit defeat.

We were still saving to buy a house and I kept losing money. I was under a lot of pressure, but I endured it all by myself.

Once she was browsing Taobao and saw something she liked very much, but she said she didn't buy it to save money to buy a house. And at that moment, when I thought of the money I had lost, I turned around and began to cry silently. Really, I kind of broke down at that point.

I feel like a black hole that keeps sucking away all the money we make and save and never get it back. But my girlfriend is working hard and saving money.

I really don't deserve it.

If one day people really don't see me appearing on the forum, then I may really have given up the deal. Maybe it's a good thing, maybe, who knows?

Last updated: 08/20/2023 01:52

阳光刺痛双眸

Negative emotions in trading are essentially a gap between expectations and reality. Individual traders are confused by huge profits, enter the speculative trading market, and give short, flat, and fast profit expectations. Negative emotions arise when traders experience a gap between market reality and expectations.

To solve negative emotions, the root cause is to have a reasonable understanding of transactions. As long as unrealistic perceptions exist, negative emotions will persist until it knocks the trader out.

Reasonable trading cognition needs to be gradually formed in continuous trading practice. In the early stage of learning trading, you can reduce the gap between expectations and reality by deliberately lowering your expectations for trading.

In the initial stage of systematic trading, it is necessary to reasonably lower the expectations of trading system testing. Every increase in expectation requires sufficient trading practice as a support. In this process, you can temporarily remember the following conclusion:

For many people, trading is a career that can be settled down, and it requires commensurate effort. At least in terms of learning and growth, trading is not something that can be done overnight.

Last updated: 08/28/2023 17:59

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